Many people I talk to think I just need to show up. What's the big deal?
The thing is there is a whole lot of stuff I need to do administratively to get organized before then. To go from barely functioning to pushing to get things done is not only stressful, but I also think a layer of impossible.
So why do it? I am sure there are those who are thinking this very question. Why do that to myself?
Because...I HAVE to.
My financial situation is still quite dire. I am trying not to go to the places people don't want me to go, but in not "pushing" my reality, there isn't much activity in terms of help.
I have just been trying to keep busy "doing," in the hope that things will shift. Given I got my first commission recently, I can only hope it is. But that commission alone does not resolve my issues.
I am also likely to be on chemo until the summer. The grind of that in the midst of trying to survive financially is not helping in the least.
I feel like I need a release, but am not sure where the heck I would find one, short of some significant financial help.
I feel like I want to/need to scream. My list of things to deal with - but not dealt with - feels like it is growing longer.
It is so hard to do the things the left brain deals with. When overwhelmed, and "healthy," it is bad enough. But feeling as I do, it just feels like too much.
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