Sometimes people act like Bob Newhart does in this video in relation to me. Of course, it isn't quite as blatant, but it fits attitude-wise. And it is said like it is just soooo very easy to do. I love the part where he talks about hand washing. That seems so perfect, too. I find that people will not pick on the things that they personally are OK with.
Have you ever noticed that for the most part the things people have issues with in regard to other people are the things they personally have an issue with and the things that go under the radar or don't even come up in conversation are the things they personally have some comfort level or relationship with?